Mediation is cheaper, faster, private, and voluntary. Courts often require mediation because it allows parties to fully understand the conflict, explore options, and reach a solution that works for them—without a judge making the decision for them.

My role as your mediator is to facilitate the mediation process and discussion. I am impartial and will not provide legal advice to the parties. In addition, our discussion will be confidential. I usually tell my clients, “What happened in mediation STAYS in mediation.” In other words, parties cannot share it with anyone outside of mediation even in courts.

The parties mutually agree to select the mediator. If no agreement is made, then the court often selects a mediator on your behalf. Watch the video here…

No, your decision whether to reach an agreement is completely voluntary. If parties are unable to come to an alternative resolution, then I will provide them a “Certificate of Mediation” to show the court that you attended mediation and that parties prefer the court to make decision in regard to your disputes. Watch the video here…

While the mediator facilitates the discussion, the parties are the ones who make decisions in mediation, NOT the mediator. In regard to the mediation process, each party will describe the situation that led to your conflict. We will then identify the issues, your needs and interests as it relates to the dispute, and then explore alternative options. If parties can resolve the issues in mediation, then as your mediator, I will draft the agreement in a Stipulation, or Memorandum of Understanding (MOU).

Yes, you may talk to your family, friends, lawyer, or financial advisor while in mediation. Watch the video here…

Yes, when conflict is high, as your mediator, I can put parties in two different rooms and will talk with each party in private. I will then shuttle back and forth between rooms to present what the other party offers. If you need this special arrangement, please inform your mediator PRIOR to the mediation. Full video here…

No, but you are welcome to consult with an attorney during the process. If legal advice is needed, it’s recommended that your attorney attend mediation with you. Full video here…

If no resolution is reached, you’ll receive a Certificate of Mediation, which can be presented in court to show that you attempted mediation. Watch the video here…

Yes, you may bring someone with you to mediation. However, the other party must permit your guest to sit with you in the mediation room.

So that we can have an effective mediation, please bring the following documents to the meeting:

- Any court orders, financial documents, and other information pertaining to the dispute.

- Documentation of your income and a completed Financial Affidavit, if child support or maintenance is an issue.

- List of issues you want to resolve during mediation and identify your needs and interests in relation to these issues.

- Review what you understand to be the needs and interests of the opposing party.

If mediator’s scheduler is unable to schedule a mediation, then we’ll refund your deposit minus credit card processing fee that credit card vendor charges us. In addition, at no cost to you, we will issue a Status Report for you to submit to the court. Watch the video here…